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Let Go or Be Dragged

Let Go or Be Dragged:

Why Releasing Control Is the Only Way Forward

Letting go isn’t easy—it feels unnatural. We cling to people, expectations, and control because it gives us a sense of safety. But what if that white-knuckle grip is the very thing dragging us under?

In this episode, I share how my son Sean’s innocent childhood words became a profound metaphor for how tightly we all try to hold on. I also open up about Shawnie’s loss and the illusion of control that shattered when tragedy hit.

We talk about:

  • Why letting go is often the most courageous thing we can do
  • The 4 things you actually have control over
  • How holding on might be keeping you from healing
  • The peace that comes when we stop trying to fix what’s not ours to carry
  • Whether you're dealing with grief, someone else's destructive choices, or just trying to navigate life’s chaos—this message is for you.

🔥 Let go, or be dragged. The choice is yours.

Your story matters, so live it courageously!

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Brave, Bold & Unfiltered with Valerie Silveira
Real talk about life, loss, and courage.

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Valerie Silveira

Hi, I’m Valerie — speaker, author, and fierce truth-teller. I’ve lived through some of life’s darkest losses and now I’m here to talk real life, real pain, and real healing. This show is my way of helping you find your voice, stand in your strength, and get honest about what it takes to live Brave, Bold & Unfiltered.